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Real Trustpilot reviews from people who found the right therapist through Fettle.

Genuinely transformed how I operate day-to-day. Before starting with Fettle, I was very close to hitting burnout - struggling with procrastination, time management, and a frustrating lack of structure. Over the last three months, working with my therapist, Louise O'Sullivan, gave me the exact circuit breaker I needed.

Finn GlennTrustpilot · Aug 2026

I really enjoy my weekly sessions with Dylan Johnston. I have tried therapy before but this time I feel I'm getting a lot more out of it. I feel so understood and it makes life less overwhelming. It's been so great to be able to do it on my laptop at home instead of the added stress of travel.

Gabby MurphyTrustpilot · Mar 2026

I am so happy I decided to try fettle. Emma Keane was my therapist and I felt immediately at ease with her, she helped me a tremendous amount. Her empathy helped me navigate difficult relationships and gain a much clearer understanding of my anxiety.

KimTrustpilot · Jan 2026

I am really enjoying my sessions with Pavel. The service fettle provides is very good and I highly recommend it

Flávio FerreiraTrustpilot · Jan 2026

Great support provided by the fettle team. They are really fantastic in following up and helping with any issues on the platform. Wonderful therapists and lovely people.

Anshuman SinghTrustpilot · Dec 2025

Fettle really got me over a hard part in my life. My father had died and I was drinking heavily. They got back to me and got me talking to someone very fast.

Simon TobinTrustpilot · Nov 2025

Fettle makes therapy simple. I booked by text message and had my first session the same week. My therapist was accredited and really down-to-earth. It's great to know I can access support from home whenever I need it.

MatthewTrustpilot · Nov 2025

I was nervous about starting therapy online, but Fettle made it effortless. Irish-based, accredited therapists and excellent communication. I booked through WhatsApp, and everything was sorted instantly. Fantastic service!

John MurphyTrustpilot · Nov 2025

The support and understanding that I've received from working with a therapist through fettle has been life-changing for me, and my on-going therapy experience has enabled me to make such positive changes in my mindset, my thinking and in my life.

Ciara WilliamsTrustpilot · May 2025

Brilliant experience with Fettle, easy to book online and so compassionate throughout. Would highly recommend

JohnTrustpilot · May 2025

Found a therapist who matches my needs, and has been open and engaging. I've been able to set up appointments on my own terms. It is certainly a service I value. Setting up additional sessions is easy and the reminders and calendars are handy to have.

Eoin WyseTrustpilot · Feb 2025

Excellent MH service. Brendan has the right tone and pace. Really felt heard.

Cian MekitarianTrustpilot · Jan 2025

Great support provided by the fettle team. They are really fantastic in following up and helping with any issues on the platform. Wonderful therapists and lovely people.

Anshuman SinghTrustpilot · Dec 2025

I am really enjoying my sessions with Pavel. The service fettle provides is very good and I highly recommend it

Flávio FerreiraTrustpilot · Jan 2026

I am so happy I decided to try fettle. Emma Keane was my therapist and I felt immediately at ease with her, she helped me a tremendous amount. Her empathy helped me navigate difficult relationships and gain a much clearer understanding of my anxiety.

KimTrustpilot · Jan 2026

I really enjoy my weekly sessions with Dylan Johnston. I have tried therapy before but this time I feel I'm getting a lot more out of it. I feel so understood and it makes life less overwhelming. It's been so great to be able to do it on my laptop at home instead of the added stress of travel.

Gabby MurphyTrustpilot · Mar 2026

Genuinely transformed how I operate day-to-day. Before starting with Fettle, I was very close to hitting burnout - struggling with procrastination, time management, and a frustrating lack of structure. Over the last three months, working with my therapist, Louise O'Sullivan, gave me the exact circuit breaker I needed.

Finn GlennTrustpilot · Aug 2026

Excellent MH service. Brendan has the right tone and pace. Really felt heard.

Cian MekitarianTrustpilot · Jan 2025

Found a therapist who matches my needs, and has been open and engaging. I've been able to set up appointments on my own terms. It is certainly a service I value. Setting up additional sessions is easy and the reminders and calendars are handy to have.

Eoin WyseTrustpilot · Feb 2025

Brilliant experience with Fettle, easy to book online and so compassionate throughout. Would highly recommend

JohnTrustpilot · May 2025

The support and understanding that I've received from working with a therapist through fettle has been life-changing for me, and my on-going therapy experience has enabled me to make such positive changes in my mindset, my thinking and in my life.

Ciara WilliamsTrustpilot · May 2025

I was nervous about starting therapy online, but Fettle made it effortless. Irish-based, accredited therapists and excellent communication. I booked through WhatsApp, and everything was sorted instantly. Fantastic service!

John MurphyTrustpilot · Nov 2025

Fettle makes therapy simple. I booked by text message and had my first session the same week. My therapist was accredited and really down-to-earth. It's great to know I can access support from home whenever I need it.

MatthewTrustpilot · Nov 2025

Fettle really got me over a hard part in my life. My father had died and I was drinking heavily. They got back to me and got me talking to someone very fast.

Simon TobinTrustpilot · Nov 2025

How it Works

From finding the right therapist to easy scheduling, Fettle therapy makes it easier to start feeling better by giving you access to personalised support from accredited professionals on a flexible online platform.

Step 1

What is relationship therapy?

Couples Counselling, Marriage Counselling or Couples Therapy is a type of psychotherapy in which a accredited therapist with experience working with couples uses a variety of therapeutic interventions to help people in romantic relationships gain insight into their relationships, resolve conflict, and improve relationship satisfaction.


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Step 2

What can you expect?

The first couple of therapy sessions usually start with some basic interview questions about the relationship's history and a thorough dive into each partner's family of origin, values, and cultural background. Your therapist will create a safe space for both partners to express themselves openly and work together towards resolution.


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Step 3

Finding your specialised therapist

Our matching process connects you with a therapist who specialises in couples therapy and understands your unique relationship dynamics. You can let us match you based on your needs and goals, or browse therapist profiles to find someone who resonates with both of you. All our couples therapists are fully accredited and experienced.


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Step 4

Unlocking online therapy

Online couples therapy removes the barriers to getting support together. No need to coordinate schedules for travel or find childcare—connect from the comfort of your own home. Research shows online therapy is just as effective as in-person sessions, and many couples find it easier to open up in a familiar environment.


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What can couples counselling help with?

Couples come to counselling with all kinds of challenges. These are some of the most common issues our therapists help with.

You
We keep having the same arguments over and over. I don't know how to break the cycle.
Therapist
Let's break this down into smaller parts and find the root cause together.

Communication Breakdown

You talk but don't feel heard, conversations slide into criticism or silence, or important topics get avoided altogether. A therapist helps you spot unhelpful patterns such as criticism, defensiveness and stonewalling, and practise ways of talking that lead to understanding rather than escalation.

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You
It feels like one of us always has to be right. Every discussion becomes a power struggle.
Therapist
That dynamic is more common than you think. Let's explore these patterns together and find healthier ways to interact.

Recurring Arguments & Power Struggles

The same fights about money, chores, family or plans keep coming back, and one of you usually ends up giving in or shutting down. Counselling uncovers the unmet needs underneath the argument and gives you practical tools for resolving disagreements fairly.

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Partner
After what happened, I don't know if I can ever trust them again.
Therapist
Rebuilding trust takes time and commitment from both of you. I'll guide you through it step by step.

Infidelity & Broken Trust

Whether it's a physical or emotional affair, hidden spending or secret online contact, a breach of trust can leave both partners reeling. Your therapist provides a structured, non-judgemental space to understand what happened, process the hurt, and decide together whether and how to rebuild.

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You
We feel more like roommates than partners. The spark is just... gone.
Therapist
That connection can be rebuilt. Let's work on rediscovering what brought you together and creating new shared experiences.

Loss of Intimacy & Connection

Feeling more like flatmates than partners, mismatched sex drives, or physical closeness that has faded after children, illness or stress. Counselling helps you talk openly about needs and desires and rebuild emotional and physical intimacy.

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Since the baby arrived we're just surviving. We barely talk about anything except logistics.
Therapist
Big transitions put pressure on every couple. Let's look at how you can support each other through this stage.

Life Transitions & Stress

A new baby, parenting disagreements, blended families, moving home, job loss, illness, bereavement or the children leaving home can all put strain on a relationship. Therapy helps you adjust together instead of drifting apart.

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You
We honestly don't know if we should stay together or separate.
Therapist
You don't have to decide today. We'll explore what each of you wants so you can make a clear, considered choice.

Deciding Your Future Together

Some couples come to counselling unsure whether the relationship has a future. Therapy offers space to get clarity, whether that means recommitting or separating as respectfully as possible, especially when children are involved. Others come for pre-marriage counselling, to build strong foundations before problems arise.

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Other issues couples bring to counselling

  • Jealousy and insecurity
  • Money and financial stress
  • Parenting disagreements
  • Blended and step-families
  • In-law and family tension
  • Long-distance relationships
  • Different values or life goals
  • Mental health affecting the relationship
  • Addiction or problem drinking
  • Fertility struggles
  • Sexual difficulties
  • Pre-marriage counselling
  • Empty nest and retirement

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When should a couple seek counselling?

Couples should consider counselling when the same problems keep coming back without being resolved, when communication has turned into criticism, defensiveness or silence, after a breach of trust such as an affair, or when they feel emotionally disconnected. You don't need to be in crisis: couples counselling works best when it starts early, before resentment builds.

It may be time to talk to a couples therapist if:

  • You keep having the same argument
  • One or both of you avoid hard conversations to keep the peace
  • There has been an affair or a breach of trust
  • You feel lonely in the relationship, or more like flatmates
  • Physical intimacy has faded and it's hard to talk about
  • A big life change has put you both under strain
  • You're thinking about separating and want clarity
  • You want to strengthen things before marriage or moving in

Research from the Gottman Institute suggests couples wait an average of six years after problems begin before seeking help. The earlier you start, the more options you have.

Fettle connects couples across Dublin, Cork, Galway, Limerick, Waterford and nationwide with accredited couples therapists online, so you can attend sessions together from home, wherever you are in Ireland.

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Therapy Approaches

Depending on couple-identified challenges, certain techniques work better than others.

Emotionally Focused Therapy

EFT helps couples identify and change negative interaction patterns by focusing on emotional responses and attachment needs, creating a more secure bond.

Gottman Method

Based on decades of research, this approach focuses on building friendship, managing conflict, and creating shared meaning with practical tools.

Imago Relationship Therapy

Imago therapy helps partners understand how childhood experiences influence their current relationship with structured dialogue techniques.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

CBT for couples focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviours that contribute to relationship problems.

Find the right approach for your relationship. We'll guide you.

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9 Tips to Make Therapy Work

Every couple is unique, but following these tips can maximise your chances of success.

1

Participate 100%. Couples therapy works only when both individuals participate fully.

2

Be completely honest. Withholding information reduces the effectiveness of therapy.

3

Address individual issues separately. Personal mental health concerns may need separate attention.

4

Be patient with the process. The first sessions may feel awkward, it gets easier.

5

Complete homework assignments. Follow all instructions from your therapist.

6

Prepare for sessions. Walk in with objectives, walk out with action items.

7

Practice daily. New skills become habits through regular practice.

8

Set clear goals. Discuss your therapy goals with your therapist early on.

9

Decompress together. After sessions, do something enjoyable together.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about couples therapy

With online couples counselling, couples can meet with a fully qualified and insured psychotherapist to help them resolve relationship challenges and address the health of their relationship. Couples in Ireland can meet with an experienced relationship counsellor through secure video sessions using Fettle's platform.

Online couples therapy offers more flexible and accessible options for when to meet and the preferred modality of therapy. It's important that both you and your partner feel totally comfortable with the modality of therapy that you choose in order to get the most out of the experience.

In relationships involving domestic abuse, physical violence, substance addiction, and/or serious mental illness, relationship therapy is not usually considered appropriate. If you believe you may be involved in an unsafe or abusive relationship, an individual therapist may be able to help you assess your risk factors, access resources you need to stay safe, or seek protection.

Meeting your therapist together as a couple is the best way to begin treatment together. Your therapist may at some point during your treatment recommend some individual sessions as well.

Fettle online couples therapy is €135 for a 60-minute Zoom session. If you cancel within 48 hours of your appointment you will be charged the full fee. Prior to the 48 hours window you can reschedule or cancel without losing any part of your fee.

Yes! Please check the Bundles page for the latest pricing on all of our therapy packages, including discounted online Couples Counselling options.

The duration of relationship counselling can vary depending on the specific circumstances and goals of the couple. Some couples may find resolution and improvement in a few sessions, while others may benefit from longer-term counselling. The therapist will work collaboratively with the couple to determine the appropriate duration and frequency of sessions based on their progress and needs.

Married Couples may consider relationship counselling when they are facing challenges or conflicts that they are struggling to resolve on their own. Some common reasons include frequent arguments, lack of communication, infidelity, trust issues, or a loss of emotional intimacy. Relationship counselling can be beneficial at any stage of a relationship, whether couples are dating, engaged, married, or in long-term partnerships.

No, relationship counselling is not exclusively for couples in crisis. It can be beneficial for couples at any stage of their relationship, whether they are experiencing significant challenges or simply seeking to enhance their connection. Relationship counselling can provide valuable insights, tools, and support to strengthen relationships and prevent potential issues from escalating.

What is relationship therapy?

Couples Counselling, Marriage Counselling or Couples Therapy is a type of psychotherapy in which an accredited therapist with experience working with couples uses a variety of therapeutic interventions to help people in romantic relationships gain insight into their relationships, resolve conflict, and improve relationship satisfaction.

Although the specifics of behavioural couples therapy vary based on the theoretical perspective of the therapist, every couples therapy entails several essential elements.

Couples counselling places emphasis on a specific issue (e.g., sexual issues, Internet addiction, intimacy, jealousy) and active participation on the therapist's part in treating the relationship as a whole rather than treating each individual separately. Solution-focused, change-oriented therapies are beneficial early on in treatment, and treatment goals must be well defined.

Does couples marriage or couples therapy work?

Online couples counselling can help.

On average, couples therapy success rates are 74% higher than that of untreated couples.

If you are still feeling unsure, keep reading to learn the benefits and approaches of relationship counselling and tips on how to make it work for you and your partner.

What can you expect from Irish relationship counselling?

Don't have any idea what to expect from each couple's therapy session?

The first couple of therapy sessions usually start with some basic interview questions about the relationship's history and a thorough dive into each partner's family of origin, values, and cultural background.

If required, the therapist or marriage counsellor may use the initial sessions for crisis intervention.

A couple's counsellor will do an intake in the first few sessions of couples counselling to hear about your reasons for seeking counselling and to get to know you individually and as a couple. Your therapist will inquire about your childhoods, how you met, the early years of your marriage, your family, and other aspects of your personal lives. It's critical to realise that this step in the healing process is crucial.

What can relationship therapy help couples with?

Break Down the Issues: A couple's counsellor will do an intake in the first few sessions to hear about your reasons for seeking counselling and to get to know you individually and as a couple.

Identify Unhealthy Dynamics: When navigating the path to a happy and successful marriage or partnership, it's critical to know the difference between healthy and dysfunctional or toxic marriage dynamics.

One of the most distinguishing features of a beneficial marriage partnership is an equal balance of power between the two couples, which means neither party is in charge of everything. Both are free to voice their feelings, thoughts, and opinions.

Resolve Conflicts: Conflict resolution may seem complicated to some couples, but with counselling, you can get past the surface-level matters and discover the deeper meaning behind your relationship's miscommunication and pain.

Revive and Reconnect: A competent relationship or couples counsellor can assist a couple in better understanding each other and restoring lost emotional and physical connection.

Build Emotional Intimacy & Trust: Therapy can aid in the restoration of communication and the rebuilding of trust and connection between the couple.

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