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Abuse Therapy
Online in Ireland

Professional, compassionate support for survivors of abuse. You deserve healing and a safe space to recover.

IACP Accredited Therapists
Appointments Available within 24 Hrs
80 Plus All IACP Accredited
24 Hours Average Wait Time
10,000+ Patients Helped

Understanding Abuse Therapy

Learn how abuse counselling can help you heal from trauma through evidence-based, compassionate approaches.

Step 1

What is abuse therapy?

Abuse therapy provides a safe, supportive environment where survivors can process their experiences and begin healing. Whether you have experienced physical, emotional, sexual, or psychological abuse, therapy helps you regain control and rebuild your sense of self.


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Step 2

How abuse therapy works

Trauma-focused therapies like EMDR, CBT, and somatic experiencing help survivors process painful memories safely. Your therapist creates a judgment-free space where you can work through feelings of shame, fear, and confusion at your own pace.


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Finding your therapist

Our matching process connects you with a therapist experienced in abuse and trauma who understands your unique situation. You can let us match you based on your needs or browse therapist profiles to find someone who resonates with you.


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Stories from survivors who found healing

For years I carried so much shame. My therapist helped me understand that what happened was not my fault. I finally feel free."

— Verified Fettle Client

I was nervous about opening up, but my therapist made me feel completely safe. The online format helped me feel more in control."

— Verified Fettle Client

After leaving an abusive relationship, I did not know where to start. Fettle matched me with someone who truly understood. Life-changing."

— Verified Fettle Client

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Choose the path that feels right for you. All sessions are conducted securely online with IACP-accredited therapists.

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How Therapy Helps Survivors

Learn how abuse therapy supports healing and helps you rebuild your life.

You
I have never told anyone about what happened. I am scared to talk about it.
Therapist
You are safe here. We will go at your pace, and you only share what you are comfortable with. I am here to listen.

A Safe, Judgment-Free Space

Many survivors have never had a safe space to process their experiences. Your therapist creates an environment of complete confidentiality and understanding, where you control the pace and direction of your healing journey.

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You
The memories keep coming back. I cannot stop thinking about it.
Therapist
Those intrusive thoughts are your mind trying to process something overwhelming. Together, we can work through these memories safely.

Processing Trauma Safely

Trauma-focused techniques like EMDR and somatic experiencing help you process painful memories without being re-traumatised. Your therapist guides you through this process at a pace that feels safe and manageable.

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You
I find it hard to trust anyone now. I always expect the worst.
Therapist
That protective response kept you safe. Now we can work on recognising safe relationships while honouring your instincts.

Rebuilding Trust

Abuse often damages our ability to trust ourselves and others. Therapy helps you understand healthy relationship patterns, develop your intuition, and gradually rebuild connections with safe people in your life.

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You
I always say yes to things I do not want to do. I am afraid of conflict.
Therapist
Setting boundaries is a skill we can practice together. You have every right to say no and protect your peace.

Setting Healthy Boundaries

Many survivors struggle with boundaries because their boundaries were violated. Therapy helps you identify your needs, communicate them clearly, and feel confident in protecting your physical and emotional space.

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You
I feel like it was my fault. Like I should have done something different.
Therapist
What happened was not your fault. The responsibility lies with the person who hurt you. Let us work through these feelings together.

Rebuilding Self-Worth

Abuse often leaves survivors with deep shame and self-blame. Therapy helps you understand that the abuse was never your fault, challenge negative self-beliefs, and rebuild a healthy sense of self-worth and identity.

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You
I want to move on with my life, but the past keeps holding me back.
Therapist
Healing is not about forgetting—it is about integrating your experiences so they no longer control your present. You can build the future you deserve.

Moving Forward

Recovery from abuse is possible. With ongoing support, you can develop resilience, create meaningful relationships, and build a life defined by your choices—not your past. Your therapist will be there every step of the way.

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Types of Abuse We Support

Our therapists are experienced in helping survivors of all forms of abuse. Click to learn more.

Emotional Abuse
Physical Abuse
Sexual Abuse
Psychological Abuse
Domestic Violence
Childhood Abuse

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Frequently Asked Questions

Have questions about abuse therapy? We have answers.

Abuse therapy is specialised counselling that helps survivors process their experiences, heal from trauma, and rebuild their lives. It provides a safe, confidential space to work through feelings of shame, fear, and confusion with a trained professional who understands trauma.

If you have experienced any form of abuse—whether recent or in the past—and find it affecting your daily life, relationships, self-esteem, or mental health, therapy can help. Signs include anxiety, depression, difficulty trusting others, intrusive memories, or feeling disconnected from yourself.

You are always in control of what you share. Effective trauma therapy does not require you to relive every detail. Your therapist will use evidence-based techniques that help you process trauma safely, at your own pace, sharing only what feels comfortable.

Our therapists are experienced in supporting survivors of all forms of abuse including emotional, physical, sexual, psychological abuse, domestic violence, childhood abuse, and neglect. We will match you with someone who has specific experience with your situation.

Yes, research shows online therapy is equally effective as in-person therapy for trauma. Many survivors find online sessions more comfortable as they can be in their own safe space. Video therapy allows for the same connection and therapeutic techniques as face-to-face sessions.

The duration varies based on individual needs. Some people benefit from a few months of therapy, while others may need longer-term support. Your therapist will work with you to set goals and review progress regularly. Healing is not linear, and there is no rush.

Meet Our Abuse Therapists

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Signs You May Benefit from Therapy

Many survivors are unsure if their experiences warrant therapy. If you relate to any of these signs, support is available.

You may benefit from therapy if you:
  • Have intrusive memories or flashbacks
  • Experience anxiety, depression, or mood swings
  • Struggle with trust in relationships
  • Feel disconnected from your emotions or body
  • Have difficulty setting boundaries
  • Experience shame, guilt, or self-blame
  • Use substances or unhealthy behaviours to cope

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Trauma-Informed Care

What is Trauma-Informed Care?

Trauma-informed care recognises the widespread impact of trauma and understands potential paths for recovery. Our therapists are trained in evidence-based approaches specifically designed for trauma survivors.

Common approaches include:
  • EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing helps process traumatic memories
  • CBT - Cognitive Behavioural Therapy addresses unhelpful thought patterns
  • Somatic Experiencing - Works with the body to release stored trauma
  • Person-Centred Therapy - Creates a safe, accepting space for healing

Your therapist will explain their approach and ensure you feel comfortable with the process.

Types of Abuse We Support

Our therapists have experience supporting survivors of all forms of abuse. No matter what you have experienced, you deserve compassionate support.

We provide support for:
  • Emotional Abuse - Manipulation, gaslighting, verbal attacks
  • Physical Abuse - Any form of physical harm or violence
  • Sexual Abuse - Sexual assault, coercion, exploitation
  • Psychological Abuse - Control, intimidation, isolation
  • Domestic Violence - Abuse within intimate relationships
  • Childhood Abuse - Abuse experienced as a child or young person
  • Neglect - Emotional or physical neglect

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